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Autism: Hot Water

29 Nov

What was it I was trying to say?

An entire blog post to share that my husband had our hot water tank replaced, and I didn’t talk about that at all. So like me, I have to share all the small details to ensure that my story is 100% accurate with no room for misunderstanding (of course, it seems even with all that – or maybe because of all of that – I am frequently misunderstood anyway.)

So a post about my new hot water tank instead became a post about going swimming, and why (though I love it) I don’t do it very often.

We have lived in this house for 14 years (and nearly a month.) My husband bought it for us, with my input, when we were getting married. When we were looking for a house, houses were selling fast! This was the fall of 2003 just before prices jumped so much that we couldn’t have afforded to buy a house at all. We put our offer in for three other homes before we bought this one.

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One of the issues in choosing a house was that I was running a daycare at the time. There were many regulations to running a licensed in home daycare, and most of the houses we looked at might not have met the rules. I suppose it didn’t help that I knew that if I had to worry about everything my husband was doing in the daycare/house we wouldn’t have had a good marriage, so I was insisting we have separate space for living and childcare – and I never even considered that we could use the main floor for my business, and the lower level for our home… and the daycare had to have two exits, so… it took a lot of houses to find one that suited.

Okay, so this blog isn’t about my daycare either…

When we bought the house, it had a really nice, all one piece, bathtub. It looked very inviting, but I quickly found out our hot water tank wasn’t large enough or strong enough to get enough hot water for a bath (for adults anyway.) It was fine for little children, even when we had three having baths one after the other and another having a shower after that.

For myself, though, I could only get a couple of inches of water warm enough in the bottom of the tub before it was cold coming out of the tap. So for fourteen years I stuck to showers in this house. Great for getting clean and conserving water, but not great for soaking – and I have had a lot of issues with back pain, foot pain, and general aches… I could have used a bath.

But the tank had been replaced only a few years before we bought the house, and it seemed selfish to me to ask for a new hot water tank just so I could have a bath. No one else cared, and we thought we had enough hot water for everything else.

Turns out we didn’t have enough for our dishwasher either. We always got our dishwashers from the thrift store, so when the dishes weren’t getting clean enough, I just thought it was because they were second hand. Then another of a long line of machines we tried broke. There was no way I was going to pay hundreds of dollars for a new one that might only last a few years, so I started washing by hand. That is when I realized we didn’t have enough hot water for that, either.

Plus, the tank we had was nearly 20 years old, and we found out we would have to replace it anyway due to insurance reasons. So my husband agreed.

Now I am able to have a very hot bath – so hot I have to turn on the cold water about halfway through just so I don’t burn myself getting in.

And it is so nice.

I might not get the exercise that I would get from swimming, but it provides for all other benefits without all of the effort.

  • No leaving home.
  • No crowds.
  • No wet clothes to deal with after.
  • No chlorine (well not nearly so much anyway.)
  • No extra shower after.
  • No pre-booking transportation
  • Very little pre-planning.
  • Lots of calm!

Besides, I can get my exercise in other ways without having to go so far from home.

 

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