People look at me funny, but it works for us.
Not everything I do fits in with the ‘norm.’ In fact, a lot of things I do look strange to other people.
Why is it that society says they value individualism, while (at best) giving people strange looks for doing things different?
That is at best. Some people get angry, look at you (me) in disapproval, even react in negative ways over things that have no effect on them personally at all (and don’t cause harm to anyone else.) Why is that?
What does it matter to them if I wear a toque in an arena when most people aren’t that cold?
What does it matter to them if I am working on my garden in April when it is too cold to plant?
What does it matter to them if I put shirts on my dogs?
What does it matter to them if I ‘walk’ my girls in a stroller?
I wore the toque because I was feeling chilled.
I worked on my garden early because there was much to do before I could plant.
My dogs wear shirts to confuse the eagles that live a few houses down the street and want to eat my dogs.
My girls don’t like walking on the street – they are afraid of other people, and other dogs, and don’t like the feel of the pavement on their feet.
When I walked them without a stroller, we rarely got out of our yard before they refused to walk any more, and needed to be carried. They still got bored being at home all the time. And then as is true now, they got their exercise running around our yard.
So I walk them in a stroller, and we often get 1-2km every walk, twice a day. It is good for us. We get out of the house for a while, without a lot of the pressures of going somewhere.
It works for us.
These things work for us.
And some people think it is cute. But other people get angry.
This I don’t understand.